What Is Yoni Dearmouring?
A Guide to Cervix Healing, Trauma Release & Sacred Pleasure
What Is Yoni Dearmouring? A Sacred Path to Healing, Pleasure, and Feminine Liberation
There are parts of us that ache to be felt—not just physically, but emotionally, spiritually, energetically.
And nowhere is this more true than in the yoni.
Many women walk through life carrying silent tension, numbness, or even pain in their pelvic bowl—particularly in the cervix. These symptoms are often dismissed, pathologized, or overlooked altogether. But beneath them is a deeper truth:
The yoni remembers.
Every unspoken no, every penetrative experience that felt rushed or disconnected, every moment we abandoned ourselves for love or survival—these experiences live in the tissues of our bodies.
Yoni dearmouring is the sacred art of listening to what’s been held—and lovingly setting it free.
Yoni dearmouring is a somatic healing practice that helps release stored tension, trauma, and emotional blockages from the vaginal canal, cervix, and pelvic space. It involves slow, conscious touch (often using a cervix wand or fingers), paired with breath, sound, and presence.
But more than a technique, yoni dearmouring is a reclamation.
It’s an invitation to meet the parts of you that were silenced, shamed, or shut down—and to welcome them home with tenderness.
This practice isn’t about chasing orgasms or “fixing” the body. It’s about cultivating safety, presence, and deep listening, so that the yoni can guide her own unfolding.
Why Does the Cervix Hold So Much?
The cervix is one of the most innervated and emotionally sensitive places in the feminine body. In somatic and tantric traditions, the cervix is seen as a spiritual gate—a portal that holds our deepest memories of power, pain, pleasure, and vulnerability.
Due to cultural conditioning, unconscious sex, birth trauma, or even energetic invasion, many women experience:
Numbness or disconnection during intimacy
Tightness, pain, or pelvic tension
Difficulty receiving or trusting
A sense of “checking out” or collapsing in the body
Grief or emotion surfacing without clear reason (especially during sex/orgasm/self-pleasure)
These are signs the yoni is asking for your attention… learn more about them here
How Yoni Dearmouring Works
The practice begins with consent and intention. You create a safe container (either alone or with a trained practition and begin exploring the inner landscape of the yoni—slowly, gently, intuitively.
Using a tool like the glass cervix wand allows for deeper access while maintaining clarity and control. With each breath and each point of contact, old patterns and held energies begin to unravel.
Tears may come. Pleasure may awaken. A memory may surface.
Whatever arises, the key is to meet it with love, compassion and presence.
This is how the body heals—through feeling, through witnessing, through surrender.
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Unlock the transformative power of yoni dearmouring with this step-by-step self-massage ritual designed to help you release stored tension, resensitize, and awaken deeper levels of healing. This holistic yoni healing practice blends gentle pressure, breathwork, and mindful presence to dissolve blockages, restore sensitivity, and reconnect you to your body's wisdom.
Below Are Wands Designed for Yoni Dearmouring
The wands allow you to access deeper, harder-to-reach areas of the cervix & yoni walls—something that’s difficult to do with fingers alone…
Made of 100% Pure Pink Aventurine Stone, the Curve by WAANDS™ is designed for de-armouring of the yoni or anus, and pressure-point massage. The narrow end is ideal for mapping, exploring, & awakening internal pleasure with specificity, whereas the wider end is ideal for more broadly stimulating the g-spot or cervix.
Pink Aventurine is a calming stone that promotes sensuality, creativity, manifestation, & inspiration.
The Cervix Wand™ by WAANDS™ is the premier glass pleasure wand designed for internal pelvic massage, also known as self-yoni massage or vaginal de-armouring. It is best used for the purpose of healing pelvic tension, pain, or numbness, and awakening pleasure.
Using the Cervix Wand™ promotes increased awareness, sensation, & connection to the pelvic region. The round bulbous end of the wand is designed for cervical stimulation, whereas the narrow ribbed end of the wand is designed for stimulating the g-spot and vaginal walls. The Cervix Wand™ can also be used for anal massage, including prostate stimulation.
Made of 100% Pure Black Obsidian Stone, the Curve by WAANDS™ is designed for de-armouring of the yoni or anus, and pressure-point massage. The narrow end is ideal for mapping, exploring, & awakening internal pleasure with specificity, where as the wider end is ideal for more broadly stimulating the g-spot or cervix.
Black Obsidian is an amazing stone to support in alchemizing sexual blocks, embracing primal power and unleashing your wild side.