
Top 5 Signs You’re Ready for Yoni Dearmouring & Womb Healing
There comes a moment—quiet but undeniable—when your body begins whispering, It’s time.
Time to come home. Time to listen. Time to feel.
If you’ve landed here, chances are something deep within you is already awakening. Yoni dearmouring is not just a practice—it’s a homecoming. A ritual of reclaiming the parts of you that have been silenced, shamed, or stored in shadow.
But how do you know if you’re truly ready?
My First Yoni Dearmouring Experience: A Portal to Lineage Healing
I didn’t know what was happening at first.
We were in India, surrounded by the scent of jasmine and the echo of temple bells. My partner—a devoted Tantric practitioner—was holding space for me with complete presence. He had asked for my consent. I trusted him. I felt safe. So I surrendered.
What began as a gentle, loving exploration became something I’ll never forget. His hands moved with reverence, slowly attuning to my yoni. At some point, his touch reached a place I’d never been touched before—not physically, not emotionally. My cervix. My gateway. My memory keeper.
Suddenly, I broke. Tears surged through my body like a wave. I was sobbing—not from pain, but from release. It felt as if generations of women were weeping through me.
Their grief. Their suppression. Their unheard “no.” Their forgotten pleasure. It all came pouring through my womb like thunder meeting ocean. And I just let it come. I held myself. He held me. The Earth held me.
It was the first time I truly felt the depth of emotional healing that yoni dearmouring can unlock.
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What Changed After That Experience
In the days and weeks that followed, I felt… different. More grounded. More spacious. More mine.
I noticed:
A softening in my pelvic bowl where there had been tightness
A deeper sense of safety in my body
An increased ability to feel pleasure—not just during intimacy, but in everyday life
A flood of creativity and clarity, like I had reclaimed something ancient and wise
I began to hear the voice of my womb. I could feel her yeses and nos. I was no longer disconnected from her signals—I was finally in relationship with her. Which means, I had a deeper access to my life force, my sacred desires, my inner power, my soul’s truth…
This was the beginning of a path that changed everything for me…
I could hear my womb speak—
a pulse, a voice from the deep.
Her tone was ancient.
Elemental. Undeniable.
She speaks from a soul-resonant Truth my mind has learned to revere.
She reveals desires undistorted by performance or people-pleasing.
She reminds me: she is the compass. The oracle.
The intelligence that feels beyond time, beyond space.
And once I let her lead…
My intimacy softened and expanded—
no more performance, no more people-pleasing.
Just presence.
Authenticity.
Safety in belonging to myself.
My creativity became electric—
because the same current that births life began moving through my art.
And I stopped outsourcing my worth—
because I remembered who I was before I was ever praised or rejected.
This wasn’t just healing.
This was sovereignty.
This was the return of my original rhythm.
The place where Source lives in the feminine.
The place where I returned to my wholeness—vast, undefinable, free.
Top 5 Signs You’re Ready for a Yoni Dearmouring Journey
1. You Feel Numb, Disconnected, or "Not There" During Intimacy
One of the most common signs you need yoni dearmouring is a sense of numbness or emotional absence during sex or self-pleasure. You might go through the motions but feel disconnected from sensation or even your own body.
This isn’t because something is “wrong” with you.
It’s because your body is wise—and has likely created numbness as a form of protection.
Dearmouring is the process of gently unfreezing what’s been shut down.
2. You Carry Shame Around Your Sexuality or Pleasure
If you’ve internalized beliefs like “I’m too much,” “I shouldn’t want this,” or “It’s not safe to express my desires,” you’re not alone.
Shame is a heavy cloak many women carry—and it often lives deep in the yoni and cervix.
Yoni dearmouring offers a sacred way to release that shame from the body, not just the mind. Through breath, sound, and touch, you begin to rewire your relationship to pleasure—as your birthright, not a burden.
3. You Experience Tightness, Pain, or Resistance in the Pelvic Area
Chronic tightness, tension, or pain—especially in the vaginal walls or cervix—can be the body’s way of saying: “I’m holding something here.” It might be a memory, an old imprint, a boundary crossed, or even a lifetime of emotional suppression.
Rather than force or fix, yoni dearmouring teaches you to listen and soften—allowing the body to unwind at its own pace.
This is womb trauma healing through sacred presence.
4. You Fear Deep Receiving or Vulnerability
You might crave intimacy—but the moment it gets real, a wall goes up.
The cervix is a deeply emotional part of the body, and often holds fear around being fully met, seen, or surrendered.
If you find yourself closing off in love, pulling away from touch, or avoiding deeper connection, this may be a sign that your yoni is longing to feel safe again.
Dearmouring clears the emotional armor so you can soften into trust.
5. You Sense There’s More to Your Pleasure… But Can’t Quite Access It
You’ve done the self-love work. You’ve explored sexuality.
And yet—you know there’s more.
More depth. More power. More sacredness.
If you feel like you’re standing at the edge of your own erotic awakening, yoni dearmouring may be the next step.
It helps you access the emotional and energetic layers of the cervix, awakening sensations that are often blocked by past imprints or unconscious tension.
The Cervix Wand we carry is a perfect tool for this.
So, Are You Ready?
Only you can truly know when the time is right.
But if your womb is whispering…
If your body aches for something more—transformation, alchemy, depth
If the thought of releasing what no longer serves you feels equal parts terrifying and liberating…
Then you’re not just ready. You’re already on the path.
This is your invitation to remember.
To feel. To reclaim. To come home to the untouched places within you.
Not all at once—but breath by breath, layer by layer, with love.
The doorway is open.
Will you walk through?
Get Professional Support on Your Healing Journey…
I know how vulnerable, intense, and tender this journey can be. To feel what’s been buried… to touch the places you’ve long avoided… to open where you once closed—this is courageous work.
You don’t have to do it alone…
If you feel the call to go deeper—with compassionate guidance, embodied presence, and trauma-informed support—I offer 1:1 somatic coaching for womb healing, intimacy, and sacred sexual reclamation.
I’m a certified and trauma-informed Love, Sex & Relationship Coach, devoted to supporting women in womb trauma healing, cervix emotional release, reclaiming sacred pleasure - and beyond.
Through a blend of somatic tools, mystical tantric practices, nervous system care, and feminine embodiment, I guide you—gently, deeply, and powerfully—as you come home to the truth of who you are.
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Unlock the transformative power of yoni dearmouring with this step-by-step self-massage ritual designed to help you release stored tension, resensitize, and awaken deeper levels of healing. This holistic yoni healing practice blends gentle pressure, breathwork, and mindful presence to dissolve blockages, restore sensitivity, and reconnect you to your body's wisdom.

Below Are Wands Designed for Yoni Dearmouring
The wands allow you to access deeper, harder-to-reach areas of the cervix & yoni walls—something that’s difficult to do with fingers alone…
Made of 100% Pure Pink Aventurine Stone, the Curve by WAANDS™ is designed for de-armouring of the yoni or anus, and pressure-point massage. The narrow end is ideal for mapping, exploring, & awakening internal pleasure with specificity, whereas the wider end is ideal for more broadly stimulating the g-spot or cervix.
Pink Aventurine is a calming stone that promotes sensuality, creativity, manifestation, & inspiration.
The Cervix Wand™ by WAANDS™ is the premier glass pleasure wand designed for internal pelvic massage, also known as self-yoni massage or vaginal de-armouring. It is best used for the purpose of healing pelvic tension, pain, or numbness, and awakening pleasure.
Using the Cervix Wand™ promotes increased awareness, sensation, & connection to the pelvic region. The round bulbous end of the wand is designed for cervical stimulation, whereas the narrow ribbed end of the wand is designed for stimulating the g-spot and vaginal walls. The Cervix Wand™ can also be used for anal massage, including prostate stimulation.
Made of 100% Pure Black Obsidian Stone, the Curve by WAANDS™ is designed for de-armouring of the yoni or anus, and pressure-point massage. The narrow end is ideal for mapping, exploring, & awakening internal pleasure with specificity, where as the wider end is ideal for more broadly stimulating the g-spot or cervix.
Black Obsidian is an amazing stone to support in alchemizing sexual blocks, embracing primal power and unleashing your wild side.